One person may want an answer now while the other wants to talk later. Before assigning attachment labels, make the practical need for contact explicit.
Identify the missing information
In a fictional exchange, “Why no reply? / I am working / When can we talk?”, the time for the next conversation is still missing. You can check whether a plan was communicated without deciding anyone’s personality.
Separate a need from an assumption
“No contact means they dislike me” is an interpretation. “I need to know whether we can talk today” is a request. State the information you need and discuss what waiting window is workable for both people.
Rewrite the exchange
“I have a deadline and cannot write much now. Could we call at nine?” “Okay; please send a short message if that changes.” This is a fictional wording exercise that includes context, timing and an update, not a treatment with measured effectiveness.
Review the agreement
Check whether the contact arrangement is realistic, rather than judging one reply. If plans often slip, revisit the timing before assuming intent. AI cannot verify what you both agreed or whether later behavior changed.